Why do so many folks in small towns spend so much time minding other folks business? Does this happen in cities too?
Here is just one small example. My son owns an old abandoned house that is presently unlivable. Granted, it isn’t pretty, but it is his to do with as he wishes. It was suggested by a city council member (who is known for intruding in others affairs) that he tear it down since it is near the main highway through town where it can be seen by anyone passing through. My son is a very independent individual, so naturally resents what he considers busybodies trying to tell him what he should do.
So, what is he going to do with his house? He started repairs over the weekend, beginning with the roof. And cleaning out an accumulation of junk. And collecting used lumber for other repairs. As soon as it is livable he will move back in and continue to remodel as he has time. Will the busybodies be impressed? No way. They will find something or someone else to hassle.
Did I mention my son is very individualistic? He originally planned to tear down the old house, and build a flying saucer shaped home. Oh my. I can just imagine the whispers, gossip, and head-shaking THAT would cause. He was inspird by the saucer home located north of Springfield Illinois
This photo was taken from the highway so it isn’t as close as we would like, but you can still get an idea of how it looks. I think it would be an interesting addition to our little town, but I am also sure there would be plenty of opposition if the busybodies discovered what was being erected.
So this is my rant for today.
okiewife–1, busybodies–0